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Sunday, February 27, 2005

thug passion

when i was younger, i used to believe that girls would outgrow their passion for thugs when they became women. now that i have become a man, and they have become women, i find nothing really has changed. women want thugs just as much as girls do. i reflect in search of an error in my reasononing.

there is something to be said or a man who gets his "ike turner" on. i have heard, 90% of any population needs direction and control. i never have been in a position where i felt the physical discipline was a necessary control or directive, especially concerning any woman that i desired to "court". i have never been in a position where i felt as if i should control a woman. are women not capable of making rational decisions concerning their own lives? any woman that i would involve myself with would posess those attributes at a minimum. could it be that women need to be physically dominated in one way or another? could it be that physical violence is the ultimate show of manliness? compassion is a desired trait for whom?

i remember this one girl that i use to be fond of. she used to have an on/ off relationship with an "ike" type dude. i never really understood their relationship and always attributed its longevity to feelings that were beneath the obvious surface. nontheless, i always felt as if i were a better alternate to her beau. no one told me that kindness = weakness. women seem to let a man get away with anydamnthing if they are "feeling" them. maybe, as a man, i do the same... (she did teach me an important lesson. never send flowers to a woman who needs diapers or visa versa.)
i bet she bacame a pretty woman; her beauty probably is questionable...

now that i am older, i do not wonder what has become of those women. plenty of battered women come in and out of my life. i never understand their feelings of hopelessness and despair. it most commonly manifests its self in the shape of addiction. who wants to lead a bored life. violence = drama = excitement. excitement and the related adrenaline rush make for an easy addiciction.

now that i am older, i have also come to the following conclusion: those women who enjoy the thug passion have no control over their lives. those women were not the ones for me anyway. i prefer a woman who appreciates, as well as manifests compassion.

reciprocity respect.

3 Comments:

Blogger Seksi dropped...

Not all woman desire a thug. There are some woman who I know mostly desire the compassionate men. Yea, there maybe some times where a woman wants a man to put them in their place (not physically) and know they need to be, but trust me, not all woman want that. As a young woman, I have grown out of that type of environment. When I look at it, thugs are not worth most of the womans time...

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